Ребенок не хочет проводить время со мной: как пережить этот период?

I really dislike the stage in motherhood where my kid doesn’t want to spend time with me or he wants to be in his own room/have his space🥲 He’ll come out here and there and tell me he loves me or sit beside me for a few but he leaves and goes back to doing his thing. It makes me want to cry. God I hope and pray when he’s 18 and older he doesn’t want to pack up and bolt out my house. 😭😭😭😭😭😭