Why is it every pregnancy someone has to announce your pregnancy without your consent? With my miscarriage in 2015 it was mil. In 2017 it was my mother. This time my own sister. I expected it out of the 1st 2 so waited as long as possible to say anything till the hg was so bad. My sister knows better, knows my wishes. And on Easter announced it to her mil and sil which i am close with but not close enough to announce yet to. I found out bc her sil messaged me asking if i had news to share. I said nope and she kept pushing. So i called my sister bc she was there and the only one that knew besides my husband.

She gave 2 bs excuses, 1st i thought you would be fine with it bc you want them at the shower. A shower thats not even planned yet. The other excuse was to my best friend that this wasnt news they should get over the phone. But not her news to share. She has been telling everyone she doesnt understand why im so upset bc she only told 2 people and they wont tell (which one clearly does if she automatically messaged me).

So i told my sister she is the last to know any information in regards to the pregnancy and birth. And that if anything happens she will be going to everyone to tell them any negative news and handeling all the messages from that.

Btw my sister is 25 so she knows better.