I’m going through the same thing girl, block him out completely.. I silenced my bd, and I’ll read the messages when I’m in the mental space to deal, or I’ll just delete and never look at them. I hate how his bs can so easily effect my mental. I am so sorry your going through it too, message me anytime girl.
That might be what I need to do frfr like I can't keep putting myself through this my sons father is beyond toxic I don't even know why I bother 🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️ I'm done trying to see the good in him because he's not going to ever change.
@proudmommyofthree_, trust me it’s taken me a very very long time to get to point where I have stopped trying to see the good in him. Every time I catch myself being too nice or trying to see good in him I remind myself of all the garbage he does, read foul messages he’s sent and I’m good. I’m so glad I finally did it tho girl, so refreshing I actually opened myself up to love after being so done for so long because I couldn’t see it being any way other than abusive and there are amazing men out there, they are slim but they are there 😂