Сыну плохо от случившегося, дети хотят домой: как его поддержать? Переживания о доме и героизм

My son just now realized what has happened. All the kids keep sayin they miss our house & want to go home. 😭😭 my oldest son looked sad i asked him if he was ok and he said no i wanna go home i said its just now hitting you what happened? He gave me a look i said lequann just think it could of been way worse we could be planning funerals. My oldest son has always been my " hype person" everytime i go thro sometbing he is always sayin mom its ok "it could of been worse! He is such a positive person always so seeing him sad is breakin my heart but he honestly has no idea what he has really done! He is a HERO