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FairyKarmaMomma·Мама сына (10 лет)

Что произошло с волосами моей сестры?

I am livid right now…
My 10 year old baby sister spent the night last night. I went to do her hair this morning to find a significant chunk of the front of her hair was way shorter than the rest. It turns out my 22 year old step sister decided she had a mat that was too big so she just cut it, no one said a word and now she’s on her way back to WA state.

First of all, that’s bi racial curly hair. It tangles very easily. Hers mats up almost daily because she takes her hair down and doesn’t keep
it in her protective style. but my father combs her hair and puts it up every morning so I highly doubt that she had a mat that big!

Second, my father was in the house and you didn’t stop and think to consult with your stepfather and their dad?! You didn’t think, let me text my stepsister and ask which of these products is a detangler because I don’t know these brands, labels? No, you cut her hair and hide it with a high bun instead

Culturally speaking, we don’t cut our girls hair other than a small trim a couple times a year until they’re about 12. It grows different, it needs more growing time due to the curl pattern, all of that. Besides that, you don’t disrespect the parent by cutting hair without permission.

We got her an appointment to get box braids while that chunk grows back over the next 6 months or so. My stepsister has some serious explaining to our father on this one.
30.12.2022

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mujerstillregal
So Royal·Мама двоих (3 года, 6 лет)
And this is why I don't let anyone do my hair, I'll sit and do it for a week if I have to. I find some people just see it as a problem, or they just don't care, and they don't love my hair as much as I do, or in this case, as much as her dad does; they're just in a rush to get through the "major inconvenience." Rushing is seriously curly hair's worst enemy
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lalaenchilada
♡𝔸𝕒𝕝𝕪𝕩♡·Мама двоих (3 года, 9 лет)
My daughter gets really matted hair if I don’t brush and braid it before she goes to sleep. I kno it’s sometimes hard to take out but I would be so mad.

I’m sorry. I’m still learning how to do big sister hair since I don’t have curly hair it’s been a struggle
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fairykarmamomma
FairyKarmaMomma·Мама сына (10 лет)
I have two different curl textures in my hair so I get it. It’s not easy doing curly hair. My sons hair is even more intense than my own hair. It’s all about water, moisture and sealing that moisture in. Denman brushes and wide tooth combs are your best friends. It’s all about patience with the process. My step sister didn’t have it, now my dad is beyond pissed and doesn’t trust her. It’s a mess
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lalaenchilada
♡𝔸𝕒𝕝𝕪𝕩♡·Мама двоих (3 года, 9 лет)
@fairykarmamomma, I would be so mad. When my daughter was in Morocco they didn’t take time to do her hair it was a mess now I’m trying to get it back how it was

what’s the best shampoo to use for it.
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bodybycheetos
BakingDaddy ·Мама двоих (8 лет, 11 лет)
If it was a small chunk, it would not have taken long to get out, even if it was matted. Ridiculous.
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somebodysmama2
Maya 🐝·Мама двоих (6 лет, 9 лет)
All she needed was some water and some conditioner smh
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fairykarmamomma
FairyKarmaMomma·Мама сына (10 лет)
Yes! It woulda detangled in about 15 minutes if it woulda sat in the aunt Jackie’s knot my detangler right in front of her MF face!
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somebodysmama2
Maya 🐝·Мама двоих (6 лет, 9 лет)
@fairykarmamomma, along with some patience! SMH
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fairykarmamomma
FairyKarmaMomma·Мама сына (10 лет)
@somebodysmama2, patience being the key word
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jenx
JenX·Мама дочки (12 лет)
What a lazy moron move. :(
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evildrporkchop.
Pork Chop ·Мама четверых детей
Oh I’d be pisssssssed!
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