Am I overthinking this?

Tell me if I’m overthinking thiss. So Eid was Saturday and this girl was begging me to go. But in my head she didn’t go last year cus she had her son.

Ok she told me I’m going to help you with the kids if you come so I went my daughter was with her friend she didn’t even help me at all I don’t need help she was with her friends the whole time so I went with my friends who have kids.

She even wanted me to stay longer so I did and she didn’t help with the baby the baby was crying she wanted her home I was out all day. Smh 🤦🏽‍♀️

( the girl that was with her came running to me and told me I can’t find big sister no where I asked her does she know what she looks like or even her name she said no 🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️ I wanted to slap her. )

But in my head I’m thinking the reason why she sent her son to her mom is so she can have freedom and not worry about a child

Every time I talk to her she says to send my daughter to the in-laws I won’t do that ever again I’m sorry you don’t want your son if o send my kids what am I going to do. Nothing I don’t want to work so I want my kids with me.

I told my husband last night she isn’t a friend I need I’m to the point of life where I need friends helping me with my dean not brining me down why I wear hijab.