Сын 4 года не слушается: что делать? Советы и помощь!
Hey guys.... so i havent posted in here in a long time but i dont know what else to do... my son is now 4 and has a hard time following rules. And i dont mean like your natural 4 year old. You can see in his face that once i say something he instantly remembers hes not supposed to do that... I think he might have adhd but hes so young that i dont think he can be diagnosed. Ive tried redirection, ive tried time outs, ive tried taking things away and i dont agree with spanking yet.... somebody please help me!
Just Another Spider Riding Aussie 🕷🇦🇺·
My son is exactly the same at the moment. I've also been concerned about him, but he can concentrate and be calm for everyone else. I think it is just the age. Maybe ask other people how his behaviours are with them, when you're not around. My son is only like this at home. Kindy he's perfect, for my mum he's perfect so I know it's just him testing his boundaries. He only behaves like that at home. Not sure if its the same for you?
Heather·
My child is only bad for me, in Sunday school and speech he's perfect. For his dad, he's great. Time outs don't work, taking his favorite toys away don't either, redirection sometimes helps. He will be 4 in July. I'm hoping he outgrows this behavior 🙏
Mamabirdddd·
I think this is normal behavior tbh, they are testing boundaries again. They want to be independent so bad and honestly it was worse than 2 for me bc he can talk back and roll his eyes. He’s about to be 5 soon and has really chilled out. He still doesn’t shut up but I feel like weve gotten to a point where we understand each other better. He definitely knows right from wrong and as with other comment, he only acts out at home. He is a perfect angel at daycare and for literally everyone else. Never have issues about behavior elsewhere.
XryztalRoze·
This is normal behavior and unless he really does have a problem; he'll grow out of it. They test us at this age and that is one of the most common behaviors I have experienced and m told by every professional the same thing.