Сын требует еду ночью после того, как сам выбросил тарелку
Tell me if I am wrong. I made dinner, everyone got their plates. My son ate some of his food. Put his plate up and got on his tablet. I told him if he wasn’t done eating to get off the table and eat
his food. If he was done his plate needed to be thrown in the trash. He threw it out. Now at 9:30 at night he wants his food and he’s so hungry. I offered him a snack and he said he doesn’t want junk food he wants real food. I tell him often, you eat when we eat and if you don’t you won’t eat later. He will wait until it’s bed time or late to want to eat. Now he wants to go into the kitchen, after I cleaned it and make a plate with left overs. No. so here he is walking around crying saying how hungry he is. Well sir if the tablet was more important than your dinner I guess you don’t eat. Am I wrong ? Should I let him eat? He does this often and I’m over it.
Icebergahead·
Мама сына (10 лет)
Opt for finishing food or no tablet time? Reduces food waste.
Mandy··
I agree with this. Eating late like this is a bad habit and he also needs to learn to prioritize eating over the tablet time.
When my daughter doesn't eat dinner and she gets hungry later she's allowed to have milk and a sandwich. She doesn't make a habit of it but it does happen every so often so I let her have something substantial. She makes the sandwich herself so it's not like I have to do it.
LT·
When my daughter pulls that she gets to have a banana or a bowl of cereal (Cheerios or Rice Krispies or something, I won’t allow her to have any of the more sugary ones late at night)
The EK 💋·
You offered him food. If he’s hungry he can eat what’s offered. You don’t get to pick and choose meal times just bc you’d rather be on your tablet. If you give him leftovers then he’ll just think he can keep doing it. So, I agree with your decision.
Stephanie·
I'm with you! I'm like McDonald's breakfast, after 10am you can'tget breakfast! No way am I allowing them to fix their own food cause I'll be cleaning up after them! You offered a snack, he must not be too hungry if he doesn't want it. Maybe put a time frame on the iPad, so like after homework until dinner and then it's up the rest of the night.
Ms Jackson If Ya Nasty ·
You're 100% right. You eat when and what I say or you don't 🤷🏾♀️simple
JenX·
I tell my kiddo the same thing my granny used to tell me: if you're truly hungry, anything to eat sounds good. A bowl of cereal, a burrito, a granola bar. If you're truly hungry you'll eat any of that.
LT··
Exactly! If a piece of fruit that I know you like won’t work then you are not hungry
XryztalRoze·
Not wrong at all. I would not have even offered a snack. We tell ours to drink water and get back in bed. They can cry as they need to but no amount of pleading will change the decision they made or the consequences that came from said decision. I must be consistent and resolute in my parenting. My children rarely go hungry and if they do it's by their own poor choice. What I will do is keep the plate of food on the counter if it's morning or daytime meal, and tell them they can't have anything else until it is gone. Sorry mama!
Dusty ·
Nope ur good in my eyes. Me and my husband have this discussion alot. I say u eat when it's dinner I can have a snack during TV time. U don't eat well breakfast will taste good and I bet your little ass will only do it once or twice.
Sistersmainpiece·
thanks everyone. This little fella had me feeling like I was legit starving him but this is a repeat thing