Why do I hate hearing 'you've got your hands full'?
I hate hearing “you’ve got your hands full”. First off I had only the boys. Secondly, I only have 3 of the 5 babies who have lived in my womb.
I hate hearing “you’ve got your hands full”. First off I had only the boys. Secondly, I only have 3 of the 5 babies who have lived in my womb.
Pork Chop ·
I hate hearing it too when I’m out with my 3.
M_🖤··
@monstermommax3, this! People say this to me plenty when I am out with my two 🙄
JenX··
it's like when they say "You look tired." Gee, thanks. Super helpful.
M_🖤··
exactly!
XryztalRoze·
I don't understand why it bothers some people to hear this comment. It's true. As moms we do have our hands full. I don't see it as a bad thing. It's simply an acknowledgement of how busy we stay and the responsibility we are blessed to have.
Jasmine··
Мама четверых детей
Because I have three of the five babies I’ve carried in my womb. It’s a reminder of what could’ve been and what is.
XryztalRoze··
I'm sorry you've had losses and that you will always carry the hurt with you, but I also hope you will find peace in the blessings you have in hand. The comment truly isn't meant with malicious or malevolent intent when people say it to us. I hope you'll find a way to accept it as it is meant. In the meantime, I wish you blessed and happy night!
Jasmine··
Мама четверых детей
or people could practice not saying anything at all. Seeing as there is no way to understand what someone may be going through.