How to walk away from someone, when you constantly feel sorry for them when they speak, and you think about kids and how it will affect them? But i understand that i am into abusive relationship, my partner can relate to most of the points being abusive partner. Now i decided to gst separated but he already saying, we will talk later and etc, but i dont want to talk anymore. I decided to go see my family for a week, i told my son is not well, but i just want to go away. Hopefully then he will understand that i am dead serious about this.