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Am I the only one that feels like my feelings are constantly invalidated, I feel depressed a lot even though I’m a stay at home mom, it’s like I shouldn’t complain because people think it’s a luxury or vacation But in reality it’s hard as f*ck. And I been doing it for 3 years now. I really don’t even know who I am anymore. No suicidal stuff I feel like I don’t serve any purpose to this world besides being a mother and taking care of others while I barely even take care of myself. 😕
16.10.2021
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mom2godzillaandwonkypets
mom2godzillaandwonkypets
I feel this i have been a stay at home mom almost 7 years now. I love being a sahm but its hard I have no breaks ever, No time alone, no adults to talk to and no friends but I love the memories im making with my son, I love that I have never missed anything in his life I was the first to hear him talk, saw when he walked, when he rode his bike, im the one teaching him school so I get to watch him from learning his letters to reading. Its always been my son and I. I love our bond but yes some days im touched out and tired but hes getting older and these days of him needing me as much are slowing getting less and less
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xryztalroze
xryztalroze
You're not alone mama. I love being home and loath the day when I have to return to work, but literally every moment and every thing I do on a normal day is about my family. From the moment my feet hit the ground in the morning to when it's finally "my time" after everyone is in bed everything is about them... I went to a celebration for life today and had to watch the clock to get home to feed baby and keep DH on schedule for his chores. I was gone 3 hours. 2 for the celebration for life and the rest for the driving and grocery. Still felt guilty after and like I took something from my family by leaving. Making beds, laundry, floors, dishes, cooking from scratch so we stay healthy, Dr appts, medications, special needs assessments, and more fill my days... I'm grateful to have a 5 minute shower each day... I refuse to complain but yes, it's hard, and some days I just feel uncared about and defeated. But when those feeling arise, I remind myself and hope you will too, that my little people look up to and need me in a way that is bigger than how I feel. Emotions roll like the tides but the effort put into my children will carry them into their prime. And no one will be able to take that away from me or take the credit when it does.
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massgirl
massgirl
I love being a stay at home mom but I understand completely. It wasn't until recently (my first trimester has been a struggle 😩) that my husband realized the amount of work that I do around here. The last two years have really been the worst because of covid I don't get out as much as I used to.
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caffeinequeen
caffeinequeen
I feel this, being a stay at home mom is extremely hard, I get the same reaction from people all the time. Sometimes I feel like I don’t even have time to breathe 😩
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beautiful_disaster
beautiful_disaster
i feel this!!!! i've been a stay at home for mostly 6 years. it gets rough because you're home every day isolated with lil humans that depend on you 24/7 then you got the house work to do while kids are going right behind you tearing it up or wanting a snack.
some days i feel the same way like who am i now? just a mom and wife who cleans up after everyone, takes care of the kids and make sure everyone else is taken care of.
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