Am I overreacting? My 4 year old fell asleep in my bed and my one year old fell asleep on the couch. My one year old’s dad wanted my four year old to go in her room, so he took her in there and didn’t cover her up or anything. Then, he put my one year old in our bed nice and tucked in under the cover when she shares a room with my four year old. They were both sound asleep so there was no reason to bother my four year old, especially if he was just going to bring the baby in. I’m upset and feel like it’s favoritism but I’m brushed off as usual.
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Nope that's not cool. Tonight I'd have both my kids in my bed and he be sleeping on the couch
I said something but I was told I was overreacting then ignored 🤦🏾♀️
Oh HELLLL NA! THAT would piss me off worse. I'd SHOW him overreacting as I was tossin all his shit outside and changin the locks. When it comes to your babies, there's NO such thing as "overreacting" or "goin too hard". Impossible.
Idk you, him or y'alls dynamic AT ALL, and I could be wrong, but there's somethin about the general aura of this "man" you're describing that is very off-puting to me. I can't put my finger on it.
Is he controlling and/or abusive in any other way?
That would rub me the wrong way too girl. I PROMISE your 4 year old is picking up on it as well. Kids are MUCH smarter than we give em credit for.
I would DEF be havin a talk with the baby's Dad and not just let this slide. Once you let it go once, dude is going to take that to mean you're cool with it.
Sitting back and passively letting it happen is really the same thing as what he's doin. It's envoking those same feelings in your kiddo.
Also I agree with this! I say definitely communicate with him about it
Oh no… how could he do that ?? That would really bother me. For him to say you were over reacting would bother me even more. He doesn’t see the problem?! Keep watching for things like this.