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Mrs. Ellis
ohlovelyme
Mrs. Ellis ·Мама двоих (7 лет, 16 лет)
Still super sad about being pregnant 😔
07.09.2021
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ohlovelyme
Mrs. Ellis ·Мама двоих (7 лет, 16 лет)
I am literally in tears overwhelmed by these thoughtful and caring words. Thank you guys so much. So very much. I go to the doctor on the 21st. I am PRAYING I feel a sense of joy when I hear the heartbeat 💗
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xryztalroze
You're welcome Mama. I am a firm believer in edifying and being up lifting. I also believe everything life is precious and blessings come in unexpected forms. I wish I could give you a hug right now to assure you and hold your hand through this. Prayers, journaling and simple quiet alone time in prayerful thought often help me in troubled times when I haven't anyone who can either be there or understand. In the end everything always turns out ok. It's getting to there that is tough. But, with God all things are possible and I have faith you and baby will be ok. Big hugs! Feel free to reach out anytime if you'd like a shoulder to lean on, a kind words to lift you up, or just an ear to listen.
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xryztalroze
You and your baby have been carefully and wonderfully made. Not every blessing that comes to us is easy to accept or even want. I pray this gets easier for you and that you fall in love with your sweet baby and that you will be very happy by time they arrive. I am sorry you're having a difficult time coming to terms with your pregnancy since it was a surprise. Do you have a loving family who you can turn to for support and direction? My prayers for calm, peace, and love to over take your heart to see you through. Hugs and prayers for a safe and healthy pregnancy, baby and mommy!!!
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professor.hashbrown
Bean·Мама двоих (5 лет, 8 лет)
@lexhernandez @cuppacoffee I agree. It is ok to be sad, it is alright to do whatever you need to do to be ok ❤ Don't let anyone shame you for your personal feelings
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meaniehead
...·Мама троих детей
What you’re feeling is normal. And telling you that your baby is a blessing because women can’t have babies is really insensitive to you because reading back, this pregnancy wasn’t wanted . And intentional or not , making you feel guilty is not what we’re going to do as women. What other women go thru isn’t your burden to carry. It’s OKAY mama, to feel what you’re feeling. You’re carrying enough in your mind and heart. @leonardsquared, couldn’t of said it better.
No matter how the situation plays out, you did what was best for you. 💜 hugs and lots of love.
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proudmommyofthree_
- Caleen 🇯🇲·Мама троих детей
Its okay love always remember this a baby is a blessing no matter what situation it is brought into some women can't have children I get you may be upset or hurt about it but I'm telling you girl its such an amazing blessing forreal you just don't know how blessed you are to even be able to see two lines on a pregnancy test some women would kill to see that you got this love we are all here for you ❤️❤️❤️
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themothafuckinladymarlow
Linden·Мама сына (9 лет)
That's ok Mama. You're NOT a horrible person, awful mother nor the only woman to ever feel this way. I PROMISE.

I'm so sorry you're going through a tough time, just try and shut out ALL the outside bullshit, ANY thoughts/opinions from ANYONE outside of the situation the best you can. Take some time to think about what YOU want or how YOU'D like YOUR future to look and start comin up with a gameplan.

This isn't somethin you can, or should, do in just a matter of hours or quickly by any interpretation of the word. It's most CERTAINLY something you need to do though. What's in YOUR heart?

HOWEVER the situation plays, out or which direction you go in life, just know you did the BEST you could and made the BEST decision you could for you and your family. Also, that you are NOT the first, and certainly not the last, Mama to NOT be thrilled about a positive pregnancy test. That I can PROMISE you.

You're only 7 weeks though, it's VERY new information. Give yourself some time to actually absorb it and take it from there Mama's. Our little community will be RIGHT here to support you on whichever path you choose to walk. 😘
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ohlovelyme
Mrs. Ellis ·Мама двоих (7 лет, 16 лет)
😢 thank you
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themothafuckinladymarlow
Linden·Мама сына (9 лет)
@ohlovelyme You are so welcome Mama! I know how scary it is to verbalize feelings like this. They sound so awful and you just KNOW you're gonna get the side eye from SOMEONE. 🙄 I'm proud of you for being strong enough to talk about something that no one else ever wants to admit or talk about. You're a strong Mama.

My inbox is always ipen if you need to vent girl. 🥰😘
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