All of the mamas that are saying that"put yourself in the other person's shoes and what if they wished something bad happening to my child?" Well let me explain both of my ex sister in laws wished me and my kids harm they tried harming them when i got pregnant with them by giving me tension by provoking my ex husband in to leaving me both times... And as for the post last night i said i was sorry but i never got the closure that I deserve
Just like @rnbee, mentioned, I too felt the hate from my mother and it affecting me badly. Do not let your children be the punching bag. You need closure and not hang on to what you thought was perfect. Get your power and strength back, sweetie. He is happy with out you.
He chose to leave. Is he in their lives now?