My soon to be ex husband still hasn’t moved out. I keep asking him about when the apartment will be…
My soon to be ex husband still hasn’t moved out. I keep asking him about when the apartment will be ready for him to move into and he keeps pushing the dates back. He says he wants to move out and keep talking to the other woman and see what happens and what he wants so idk why he is taking so long. I’m tired of seeing his face every day and being reminded of how he’s hurt me. I’m so tired from being emotionally drained I don’t have the energy to do anything even with sleep and caffeine. I just want to know when I can start feeling better and not have this knot in my chest. I’m trying to focus on my kids right now but it’s hard to even focus on anything. I know I could use a therapist but I hate asking my family or friends to watch my kids. I don’t want to be a burden to anyone. I just wish I could lay in my bed and curl up in a ball and not exist for like a whole day. I also know what I am feeling is normal for what I am going through. I just need to push through… I don’t wish this experience on anyone.. except maybe on my husband and his mistress. But what goes around comes around I guess.
Mandy·
This feeling is totally normal. I went through it, it gets better I can promise you this. Have you talked to the lawyer. If he keeps playing games like this then I would just pull the trigger and have him removed from the property. There are legals ways to go about it so ask the lawyer. My best advice from this is to go to therapy. It's not long find a person local so it will only take up an hour maybe 90 minutes at most (because of commute time factored in) so you aren't gone from the kids for long. Tbh if you don't seek outside help it will just delay the feeling and take longer to heal.
Little Mommy ··
Yeah I have met with the lawyer. I’m trying to keep the peace as much as possible for my kids right now. He’s supposedly got an application in at an apartment and he’s just waiting for the call back that he’s approved. I’ll see what happens in the next week. As for therapy, I just have to suck it up and go, you are right
Sistersmainpiece··
you also may find a therapist that can zoom. i’m in therapy and mine allow me to do zoom.
Little Mommy ··
@dontblockmesis-imjustspeakingfacts, that’s actually a good idea! Thank you
Dannii ·
I'm so sorry, I hope the apartment comes through asap, and I promise one day he will get the carma he deserves it might not happen in the next week or year or even two years but it will get him.