The cort date is comming up and my baby will be tested to get her dna matched with my abuser who held her while in his arm while strangling me with the other arm. How do I protect this baby when The cort will give her to him without supervised visits. I thought long and hard about what kind of mom am i if i cant protect my smallest family member from those abusive arms. I called Acs crying telling them I want my baby to be safe. Now they are investigating us not him but us. How do I proted my baby is still my question they said nothing will happen he is not even the legal dad and its gonna be my word against his. How does the law not see the truth i feel bad for being abused and speaking up now im being investigated too im scared.
I literally never reply much then just we are ok he write all these twisted stories to make me think what he wants me to think as if its my truth manipulating my brain to think what he is saying I am I gotta except and be. But he never mentions the truth only write what he does to look good for proof
It’s their responsibility to fully investigate both parties for the sake of the children because, unfortunately, a lot of parents will lie about the other parent in custody cases. If your kids are taken care of, healthy, and in a safe home then you don’t have anything to worry about as far as their investigation into you. Best of luck!
I'm sorry momma, sometimes the powers that be fail the ones that need the most help. The investigation will not turn up anything, just breathe and take it one day at a time.
@verguinia if you're still talking to him, only communicate in text messages and email, always, that will be proof if he slips up, avoid all phone calls. Maybe he doesn't have anything and he's just trying to scare you
You don’t need to respond to any of his messages. You can ask the court to make it so no contact is allowed other than about the daughter. Him calling you names doesn’t look good in court either. Does he pay child support?