On Tuesday of june 8th my ex wanted a temporary order....But my lawyer said I don't have his financial information to calculate the total of child support..... So the judge agreed with us and set the date for October 8 😂.... He has 4 months to pay $1108 child support.... Keep on paying boy ur not stopping until they are 21 years old and MY daughters are 5 and 7 years old... You HAD left an emotional scar in their hearts that they aren't capable of NOT being loved.... My oldest daughter thinks that its her fault for being a daughter not a SON! But she's wrong shes the best daughters are a gift from God!
@jenx I wish I had that enough strength to call the cops on him and put his ass in jail when I had the chance :(
@iqrahp5, a judge won’t modify child support unless he loses a job or has a loss in income. Supporting a new wife isn’t an excuse to not pay.
Can I tell you something, when I was little I also used to think the same. I used to think maybe if I was cuter or if I would of been born a boy my dad wouldn’t have walked out of my life. It fucked me up. I know your not asking but I would suggest you get her in therapy ASAP because I didn’t and as an adult that caused so many other issues in my life. I had zero self esteem, I allowed men to treat me like shit because I didn’t want to be abandoned. It took me going to counseling to understand I was never the issue. Good luck!
Girl this just got to me. I relate, I’m sorry you do too. And agree with your advice. Therapy is so helpful even this early. Kids should NOT have to deal with it know about the logistics of adult world. A 7yr old shouldn’t know about this. In regards to either parent.
Sometimes it’s easier (in my experience) to stop fighting and just let it go to default. They will intercept his taxes each year and pay out of that, interest goes to you as well. Some states they suspend their license and even put them in jail til it’s paid. Just keep doing what you do, ask for help as needed but keep your children away from it. They shouldn’t know what it’s like to struggle.