ever wondered how people would react if you wasn't here anymore ? just laying here wondering how people would react...…
ever wondered how people would react if you wasn't here anymore ? just laying here wondering how people would react... like i wish i could just go completely invisible so i can see the reaction. would the reaction just be because i do everything around here cooking, cleaning, and laundry so no one would be here anymore to do it... or if i would be truly missed out of love..
Heather·
I wonder this often...like i know they'd miss me but i wonder how quickly it would get back to normal. And like i worry for my parents mental health if something were to happen to me. Our minds are so strange. I try not to think about that kind of thing too much but it does pop in my head a lot😫
Heather··
@beautiful_disaster ugh don't say that. I guarantee you'd be missed by everyone, not just the stuff you do for them.
Goth_Mom··
like i know the kids would but everyone else i doubt
Heather··
I'm sorry they make u feel like that! You're an incredible mother and wife and deserve so much better than your getting💙
Mrs.stkrdknmibalz·
Honestly I feel like everyone thinks this sometimes. Either with depression or just a back in the head thought. Mothers tend to do a lot and sometimes majority of the work so it is kinda hard not to think about it. You’re doing great and you definitely would be missed by your daughters.
Goth_Mom··
i know my kids would which is what keeps me going.. but i think that's about it.
i'm just burned out, i'm tired, and idk how much more i can stretch.
Mrs.stkrdknmibalz··
I feel you and hear you on it. Maybe a break is needed if u can find a sitter? Or make ur husband watch the kiddos and do something for you. I KNOW you would feel SO much better if you do 💕
Rubiaxo·
I think about this all the time 😪
JenX·
I casually.mentioned that I may go help my mom clean out her house for a few days because she's selling it, and I was really surprised at the reaction I got around here. She lives 2.5 hours away and I was talking 2-3 days. My daughter got extremely emotional about how I can't go, she would miss me too much. My husband said he would handle everything if I wanted to go, but he knows its a lot that I do and he would just have to do his best. That it wouldn't be the same. (He was trying to be supportive without having a panic attack :)
I think we don't realize how much people appreciate us being around just being us, we think its the cleaning and cooking and house management, but I think that's our own fatigue talking.