Ya'll I gotta be honest. Lately I've been having some good days. But I'm starting to feel that deep…
Ya'll I gotta be honest. Lately I've been having some good days. But I'm starting to feel that deep physical, mental, and emotional exhaustion where I just want to fully check out. Like in the deepest way possible I need a break. Not a week vacation, just like a couple hours without feeling rushed and not running errands. Seriously it's like someone is always fighting, screaming, or crying in my house and I'm just exhausted from it. I feel like that makes me such a bad mom because I love and ADORE my children, they've just been a lot lately. Trying to keep up with the 4 of them and there's currently 7 people in my house (husbands best friend is living with us until September 1st, he lives out of state) so trying to the cooking, cleaning, akd laundry for all 7 of us while my kids fight and yell all day, I just feel so alone right now. Sorry for the rant, you're the only people I can be open and honest with.
JenX·
That sounds extremely exhausting. Do you have any relatives who could come lend a hand? I totally understand your exhaustion, it's overwhelming just to read what you have going on, let alone.live.it. <3
Even super moms need a flipping break!
Adrienne Kark··
she denies that she was involved in any of the shenanigans even though we had many many witnesses who were there and the family just believes she can do no wrong
JenX··
@countrypeaches42013 that's not going to help her at all in life. :( She's going to grow up to be a real piece of work if she thinks the whole.family will just shun anyone on her behalf.
Adrienne Kark··
she believes everyone's worlds revolve around her but that's because people in my family have let her believe that. The person I feel worst for is her little sister (who is 14) she was one of my closest friends and i loved having her tag along with me. But my cousin (their mom) wont let me see her anymore because of all of it. I'm allowed to snapchat her but I havent seen her since last august and I used to see them multiple times a week. Their mom was my closest friend in the whole world since pretty much the day I was born. I've tried talking to her but she has no interest in hearing my side. She believes her daughter is innocent and she will stick to it even after hearing other testimonies of others who were also involved.
mybabybear ·
Мама сына (7 лет)
That’s how I’ve been feeling lately. I’m really struggling.
Mamabirdddd·
Why you cooking, doing laundry for, and cleaning for the friend?!
The EK 💋·
I would definitely take laundry for the friend off the list. It’s easy to make extras for dinner but going out of your way to clean clothes shouldn’t be on your to do list at all. I’m sorry you’re feeling overwhelmed and that’s totally understandable. Can your husband take some household tasks on? Or give you a day to yourself on a weekend or one of his days off?
Adrienne Kark··
He works from 7-6 comes home for dinner and then has more work to do. Right now we are prepping for summer camp and only have 3 weeks until camp starts so he's insanely busy from the moment he wakes up until he goes to bed and he's rarely home. I usually only see him at dinner time and then he's off again.
Mimi·
I feel this… I couldn’t imagine having 4 so young tho. I get very overwhelmed lately having all 4 of my kids home 24/7 for the last 14 months. It makes it difficult to get anything done and I have always been ocd about everything. Meditating and Marijuana are the only things from keeping me from going insane. My husband also works long hours so he’s not much help to me. Usually by the time he is able to help me everyone is in bed or settled and there’s nothing left to do.