If the person you are involved with says they want to work on yalls relationship but they don’t…
If the person you are involved with says they want to work on yalls relationship but they don’t think they can meet your needs at this point in their life would you walk away or go to therapy? I’ll elaborate more but I’m curious to see others opinions.
M_🖤·
I guess it really depends what needs they can’t meet and if they are willing to atleast try to work things out and compromise, from experience it does not hurt to go to couples counseling in the end you’ll either realize you can work things out and be together or if it’s best to go separate ways and it’s in my opinion better to have someone sometimes from the outside help.
Vee·
Мама двоих (2 года, 11 лет)
Well i think maybe therapy might help sort the situation idk
Ms Jackson If Ya Nasty ·
Walk away. I dated my husband once and he said the same thing so we called it quits. We ran into each other few years later at the gas station & he was like I'm ready for you now 😂 and here we are...married and still getting on my nerves tho🤣
Leah··
This.
Ms Jackson If Ya Nasty ··
I don't have time to waste on someone who doesn't know what they want and can do lol life is too short. Therapy isn't going to make someone meet that person needs..esp if it includes monatary help 🤣I would only consider therapy to someone I was married to anyways...if you're just my bf, don't live together or my baby dad...it's not happening buddy.
The EK 💋·
Walk away. Life is too short to wait around for someone to decide they can meet your needs. What are we working on if we’re not working on meeting each other’s needs?
Ms Jackson If Ya Nasty ··
Exactly. Why waste time. Could find mr right in the meantime if its meant. That's why my now husband & I went our seperate ways the 1st time we dated. He didn't have the time, stability, emotional support or financial ability to deal with me then lol & let it be known. Few years later he had got a new job car house & his life all together and was like ok I'm ready for you and your daughter now.
RiaRia🙏❤··
Мама двоих (6 лет, 13 лет)
Tell it ek!👏
Mrs.stkrdknmibalz·
If I’m with this man for 8 years (like my relationship now) and have a child with him then damn right I want to try to make it work. I can’t just throw away all those years without trying to fight.
But if it’s a few year relationship fuck that I’m walking.
Mrs.stkrdknmibalz··
@ksmommyx3, we’ve been trying to get married. The courthouse has been closed since last year cause of covid.
Ms Jackson If Ya Nasty ··
@sourpatchkid y'all should go to Vegas and get married by Elvis 🕺🏻 lol jk but that would be fun
Mrs.stkrdknmibalz··
bahaha it would but wouldn’t cause hubs has a fear of planes so a 24 hour car ride is a NO
Stephanie·
Run away! Why be in a one way unhappy relationship.....and how long would the other person need?!
Mimi·
Would totally depend on the needs. I went through something sort of similar in earlier days of my current relationship, we’ve been together 11 years.
So Royal·
Мама сына (2 года), беременна (2 нед.)
It doesn't sound like they want to work on it when they've already concluded that they "can't meet your needs," whatever that means, but it does sound like they've no intention of trying, then later on they can say "well I told you I couldn't do xyz." All relationships will have challenges and obstacles to overcome, why start out jumping hurdles? Imagine if we go ahead with it, then further down the line he tells me he just cannot meet me where I'm at? I've wasted time in wait. My philosophy is this, don't go into a relationship hoping someone will change, go into a relationship accepting who someone already is