Ok mommies i have a debate in my mind about what to do once i actually get the keys to this apartment its 2 bedrooms with a big livingroom small bathroom
Should I
1) give each of my girls a room and use half the livingroom for my bedroom with a room divider or
2) give my girls 1 room and use the smaller for me leaving a big livingroom useless with no guests trully its quarenteen ?
Any help would be trully appritiated
How is this even a question??
You're the only adult in the house, you need and fucking DESERVE your own bedroom girl. The girls will be fine sharin a room, I PROMISE.
Also the living room is never useless, with or without guests, and ESPECIALLY during quarantine. If it's just the 2 bedrooms, I'd imagine the living room would be where you and the girls spend most of your time. If they're doin online school, I bet that's where they do it, crafts, watchin TV and just hanging out.....the living room is where most people do hangout. That or the kitchen.
I personally canNOT stand to have people sleepin all over my living room. Makes me crazy. If we had guests, the living room wouldn't be used for that anyway.
Shall you have guests that need to sleep over, put the girls in your room with you and your guest in their room. Problem solved. 🤷♀️
Put them together give them the bigger room and split it up if your oldest “wants her space”
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You need your own room. My girls share a room!
You can buy them a bunk bed or two different beds depending how big the room is.
Number 2. Girls sharing a room makes for extra sister bonding. You have your own room to unwind in. And the living room is for family time throughout the day. Easy peasy
True and yes they do need sister bonding !!!!! Good point i def need to unwind and hide a stash of wine in my room tooo 😆😆😆😆
Definitely have your own room. I’m not sure what you mean about quarantine? Everything is pretty much back to normal now except we still have to wear masks 🙄 At least in California. My sister lives in Texas and masks aren’t required. We’ve been going about our lives like normal and have family over all the time. You definitely need a living room!
I think in nyc where im at is also looking better i try not to watch the news but some of my friend did recently get the virus i think i do need a room i need to have space to get ready for the day and quiet alone time
The baby is constantly going to her sister room at night on her own already
How is this even a question??
You're the only adult in the house, you need and fucking DESERVE your own bedroom girl. The girls will be fine sharin a room, I PROMISE.
Also the living room is never useless, with or without guests, and ESPECIALLY during quarantine. If it's just the 2 bedrooms, I'd imagine the living room would be where you and the girls spend most of your time. If they're doin online school, I bet that's where they do it, crafts, watchin TV and just hanging out.....the living room is where most people do hangout. That or the kitchen.
I personally canNOT stand to have people sleepin all over my living room. Makes me crazy. If we had guests, the living room wouldn't be used for that anyway.
Shall you have guests that need to sleep over, put the girls in your room with you and your guest in their room. Problem solved. 🤷♀️
Ok i see what you mean good idea about the school work i was gonna put her school desk in the room but thinking of it going in the living room now 🤔I do need space truly
@verguinia I think you should seperate their learning and their sleepin/play areas whenever possible. It helps them get into the correct frame of mind when the space is conducive to what you're tryin to get them to do.
Girl, you deserve your own headspace and a place to rest your heart. Go with a room for you and one for the girls so they feel safe together 💚 Congrats. Claim it. Own it!
Girl, you deserve your own headspace and a place to rest your heart. Go with a room for you and one for the girls so they feel safe together 💚 Congrats. Claim it. Own it!