update on my grandmother she's in ICU so far she's had 2 heart attacks within 3 days and has fluid…
update on my grandmother she's in ICU so far she's had 2 heart attacks within 3 days and has fluid on her lungs. she suppose to have a heart cath done tomorrow morning.... i'm not sure at this point what the outcome going to be. my sister is going to fly up from Texas to get papers for power of attorney over everything... and truthfully idk how imma handle if things turn for the worse... i never really had relationship with her due to family conflict so a part of me saying i should've tried to fix that as i got older
Linden·
You were the child, it was NOT your responsibility to build, nor repair, a relationship with ANYONE. Related or not. That's on them girl. You have NOTHING to feel bad or guilty over.
If she didn't reach out or try to make amends prior to being on her death bed, I think that'd piss me off worse. I hate those people that treat you like garbage your entire life then expect to play the "poor me, I'm dying" card later and expect you to come runnin, feelin all bad for em. 🙄
If YOU feel like sayin goodbye, for your own peace, by all means. Don't do it for her, or ANYONE else, though. I'm sorry you're goin through a tough time though girl. 🥺😘
Goth_Mom··
thanks hun ❤️ even my MIL was like "if something happens to her your emotions are going to be all over the place since you
didn't really know her wondering if you should've" not helping 🥴
half of me is like idc i hate to say it cause i know she's my grandma but i don't really know hear see her once a year usually don't hear from her so i don't really feel anything towards it but at the same time im wondering if i should've been the bigger person and tried to talk to her more and try to have a grandma and granddaughter relationship like her and my sister have. but i don't know how🤷🏻♀️ so mil right my emotions are all over the place and she not even dead.