So im having issues with the hubs. Instead of having the same talk i have with him every year im being super petty. Theres also more going on than me wanting extra attention this year. So ive been refusing to get nakid in front of him, i close the door when i go to the bathroom, we still sleep in the same bed but i dont touch him. I dont kiss him or say i love him (im not feeling loving towards him) and its odd because he has small moments that he seems to see somethings up, like when i didnt kiss him goodbye or tell him i love him when i left for work this morning, but most of the time he acts like nothings happening so does he not see it or is he choosing to ignore it? I know i should talk to him but im always the one to start the conversations and he just kind of nods and goes along with it. Im not doing that again this year. He can bring it up that im not giving him attention.
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Its only been about 4 days and hes only been home since Friday evening.
@spud if you have the patience you could wait for him to bring it up. But what if he doesn't? How would you feel about that?
If you're annoyed, say something, maybe he's not bothered by anything. Maybe try talking to him from a different angle? Send an email? A text message, (I imagine it'd be a lengthy email,) maybe even mail him a letter.. from your address to your address. Sometimes you gotta get creative with how you reach out to people. How long have you been withholding yourself from him? Maybe that approach just needs more time