I need some marriage advise. I’m really starting to think my marriage was an accident. We’re constantly fighting and he shows no interest in making an effort in our relationship. We don’t go out, he doesn’t have a job, yet doesn’t clean the house nor make dinner when I work 12 hour shifts pregnant. He honestly annoys the fuck out of me to the point where I almost hate him. He’s always complaining about something. I have a migraine, my shoulder hurts, I feel like crap, I feel emotionally not there, complain, complain, complain. I just can’t take it anymore. Like how can he complain so damn much?! He doesn’t clean, he doesn’t cook, he hasn’t worked in 6 months. Like what is so hard about your life?! I’m growing a baby and working 12 hour shifts. I’ve been thinking about picking up overtime to get some finances paid off by the time this baby comes so I won’t have to worry about going back to work as fast. He’s in a lawsuit and his lawyer doesn’t want him getting a job and the case isn’t moving at all. So I’m starting to trip financially now as well as emotionally. The deal was I could stay home with the babies and not work anymore but until he actually uses his CDL that isn’t going to happen off unemployment.
Do you think it’s selfish to want to work opposites shifts and leave the kid/kids with your s/o, husband, child’s father when he works 12 hour shifts?
I really want to work away from the home a few days a week. He doesn’t want to use a sitter or day care so I would have to work opposite shifts. He works 7pm-7am in the navy. He never has the same days off at the hospital because they work rotating shifts. Thing is he deploys yearly so idk how it would work when he is gone but for now I was think...
Opinions! I’m pregnant with my ex boyfriends third child it is our second together. Our daughter is 3, we split up a week before I found out I was pregnant. He doesn’t want to fix things. And I’ve been trying to sorta ask him to come home but found out some news that completely broke my heart. I sorta started to talk to someone that doesn’t live in my state but works around my area sometimes.. we spent some time together while he was here and he will be back in 3 weeks.. am I doing something wro...
Locked my husband out of our bedroom I’m so sick of him staying up till 5 am playin video games online then sleeping till he goes to work while I’m taking care of the kids and house! This is gettin so old and his excuse is he works 10 hrs a day so he deserves to relax... well I work 24/7!!!! I never get a dam break
This chick that works with my boyfriend really confessed her love to my man and then went into tears when he rejected her. (Mind you, he works in a kitchen and tells everyone about me and the fact that I’m pregnant and how excited he is to have a son.) Apparently she’s started to cause him problems at work and getting jealous when he talks other females, me included😂 Like this hoe really tried it😩😂🤪