And so the BM/ BD drama begans...not only is he questioning if the baby is his... He told me he hope i got "rid" of it. Then proceeds to tell me until he has proof (DNA) then its not his. He also said he thinks im faking the pregancy because get this...im not getting big. He expects me too have this huge bump when im only 16 weeks & this is my 1st time ever being pregnant. All Thats fine...but he needs to keep that same energy when DNA tells him he is the father and i need proof that he will be a good father before i allow him to be a father! Since i have to go through 9 months of doing it alone to prove to him. Imma need atleast 9 months of him proving to me! And i dont care who disagrees. My baby is not something he can just decide when and when not to step up for.
Wow what a douchebag. I’m would say leave him alone for now until baby is here and once baby is here go to the courts and sue his ass for child support. In some counties it can take a while to be seen so the quicker you file once baby is born the better. I think you may need to cover the DNA test portion of it (in Cali it’s like 450$) since you’re the one who will have to sue for paternity but with the court order he can’t get around to not doing it. Good luck! Don’t let him get to you regardless of how shitty he’s acting.