So I've been asked to post my birth story so here we go.
On 01/23/2021 at 11:45 am I stood up and my water broke it was a gush but not a huge gush (ill get to that in a little). So mike and I packed up and went in to the hospital about 2pm I was finally admitted by 3 pm they started pitocin to start contractions cause they were consistent and I wasn't dilating... by 5 pm I asked for my epidural because I was having constant contractions with no break in between they were okay with that because my contractions weren't doing anything. I felt the entire epidural it was interesting. By the time I started to dilate i stalled at a 6 for 14 hours so they put something on my uterus to monitor how strong my contractions were by this time I was maxed out on pitocin the nurse had never seen someone maxed out. By 7 am the delivering doctor came in to see what my cervix was at and Milo had a second amniotic say which ruptured all over her. By 11 am I was a 8 so mike jumped in the shower and by 11:45 I was a 9 and my epidural stopped so I could feel him decending i felt a ton of pressure and I felt EVERYTHING but it was so worth it he came out in 3 pushes screaming at 12:07 pm
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Transgender children
So I just learned that in my kids school district (my kids aren't in school yet my oldest will be starting kindergarten next September) there are twin boys who identify as girls. They are 5 years old. What's your opinions on this matter given they are 5!!! I don't believe that at that age they really understand the whole thing. So the entire school had to take a course on how to handle transgender children. For example they can't say girls go this or boys do that. What are...
Science!
My friend posted this on facebook last night and said her kids were asleep within minutes. It's a song that scientists created to help people fall asleep. I was skeptical but I thought what the hay, I'll try it out. I didn't bank on Dh falling asleep, but both him and lo were asleep by minute 2. And lo slept six straight hours. ?
Starting TWW. Anyone else?
I had a stillborn daughter at 38 weeks this passed Nov. This is my second month ttc. (Last month we only tried for like two weeks though). My last and only pregnancy, I got pregnant the first month of ttc so I hope it's quick this time again.
Trigger. Lost baby
Went in for my 20 week check up and found out our son had passed away. Nothing was wrong, my pregnancy has been going great. I'm so numb right now. I'll he delivering him later this week. I don't want to do this. I don't want to do this. Not before Christmas. How am I'm going to tell my kids?? My dear sweet baby boy. Why did this happen?