I never felt contractions until after my water broke with both kids, but then the were period cramps from hell. I was hooked up to monitors with my second and was having regular contractions 5 minutes apart before they broke my water and I felt nothing still. I guess I just don’t register them until I’m much closer to delivery.
It was different both times for me. First time I had back labor and I felt them in my lower back. Second birth they were in the area where I would feel period cramps.