Ugh it’s such a mess. For any of you who didn’t see one of my previous posts my bf decided to keep his son until his ex’s bf provided clean drug tests. I found a meth pipe with her in her car that her bf uses and she’s told me some concerning behavior that sounds like meth use. He refused to drug tests. And she isn’t pushing it. My bf giving her the benefit of the doubt let her come visit with their son. She brought her friend (a stranger to my house which I asked her not to do with no notice. (This is now the third time) and she grabbed him and said I’m leaving you can’t stop me. My bf is heartbroken. He doesn’t feel his son is safe there with the live in boyfriend obviously doing drugs. He has notified DCS. And he’s hoping some good will come of it. It was a dirty move.

ETA: I became quite close with her. She would call me often crying about her bfs behavior. Which honestly was blatant verbal and mental abuse. And very obvious behavior that comes with drug use. I feel bad for her since I used to be in that situation but to just brush the drugs stuff to the side scares me.