November 6, 2017 Every time I come across these photos in my google storage I get upset angry and…
November 6, 2017
Every time I come across these photos in my google storage I get upset angry and full of every type of emotion. This happened to me because I fought to be with the guy I knew since 2005 and we wanted to get married. This was caused by one of my brothers. He held and fought me on the stairs as I wanted to go get my fiancé now husband because he threw him out of my mom’s house. That’s where we were that evening. My brother storms in with papers asking are you so and so and so. Right then I knew it wasn’t going to be good. I knew all about his past and knew he wanted out of it and none of it was his fault. He was in a toxic relationship like baaad. We met in 2005 my parents didn’t approve so I snuck out to see him until he moved in January 2006 I moved in April of that year. We lost contact in January. He got a hold of me in 2011 we talked online for a while but I wasn’t ready. My dad passed away months earlier and my sis and her 3 kids were living with us. She got out of an abusive marriage. I think that’s what my brother was afraid of for me but I knew different. It’s called talking to us before you jump to conclusions. That awful night I was crying my eyes out all night clutching my laptop since that was the only communication I had with my fiancé. My 2 other brothers came over too. I managed to sneak out to the neighbors to call him but I couldn’t reach him yet. Until a few hrs later. It was so scary. And yes my brother smashed my phone. Said he’d get me a new one but never did, didn’t know what I was talking about 🙄 I haven’t seen or talked to that brother since. We tried going to the police next day but they did nothing since my brother had already talked to them that evening. My whole family has made amends and accepted my now husband months after but I don’t think I’m ready to see my brother. It was very upsetting and unnecessary. If my family can see we’re still together and happy I feel like telling him I told you so but I won’t. I just hope he knows what a big mistake he made! I was thrown out of my house the next day and was forced to quit my job. We married November 10th at the court house. It’s clear we were meant to be. ❤️ 3 years strong and counting! Our song has been “Perfect” He’s my perfect person forever!
Stephanie·
I hope if you ever see him again he gives you an apology. Doesn't matter if you stayed with him or ended things, either way you should have been the person to decide what happened in your relationship.
Luvbeingamom18192226··
If I’m ever ready to see him again yes he should. After all I knew him better than anyone. The only people that ever met him were my parents once back in 2005 Later on my mom told me my brother said that night could have been handled differently. Yeah ya think! I’m an adult and clearly could make my own decisions.
Cams ·
Why didn’t your family and brother like him initially? Was he abusive in his prior relationship?
Luvbeingamom18192226··
Nope just the opposite. His ex was the drug addict drinking abuser. The psycho whore side of her came out shortly after they started dating. None of their relationship was good. My parents were the only ones who met him in 2005 once and that was enough. They didn’t give him a chance. He’s 8 yrs older than me, he didn’t go to church blah blah blah. My siblings didn’t meet him until months after we were married. My brother jumped to conclusions of course and didn’t think I knew about his past from 2012-2016 I did because he told me about it when we got back together in 2017 Nobody ever believes the mans side of the story when it comes to abusive relationships. My husband has PTSD from those horrible years. It was really bad. I knew he was a kind caring person from the beginning. All a bunch of misunderstanding from my families part.