I'm a stay at home mom of 4 kids. Three of them are older (18, 12, & 7) and have a different father. I married my husband over a year ago. We had our son (7 mo) 10 months later. We have spent most of our dating and married relationship 1800 miles apart. He's finishing the last year of his doctoral program. We do earn a lot of sky miles going back and forth between two homes.