I'm a first time mom. Honestly this whole "mommy" thing scares me. I know I'm good with kids, but what if I can't cut it? What if I'm not a good mom? Well, that's about everything about me right now
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Birth Plan Rant
I used to be all about getting an epidural, but after research and thinking about it more I want to have an unmedicated birth (this is my first baby). What annoys me is when I say that I'm going to TRY my hardest to have a natural and unmedicated birth people always feel the need to say that I'm crazy or that I'm going to change my mind when I get in that position. Or that epidurals are the best. I do realize that plans change, but why can't people be supportive and encouraging?
For the veteran moms of mom life. Do you ever wonder what happened to moms that were on here when it was preggie. I have one in particular i was thinking about but I cant remember her name.
So I have question I'm 23 weeks and I thought a 9 lbs weight gain was good but now I'm re thinking it what is normal at this stage is it to much I'm stressing out I am really watching what I eat and I really don't over eat sad mommy here 😔
The dreaded change
Let me preface this post by saying that I know I'm old enough to be about 90% of y'all's mom, but a few of you are at least close in age to me, so bear with an old woman's ramblings for a minute...