Birth Plan Rant

I used to be all about getting an epidural, but after research and thinking about it more I want to have an unmedicated birth (this is my first baby). What annoys me is when I say that I'm going to TRY my hardest to have a natural and unmedicated birth people always feel the need to say that I'm crazy or that I'm going to change my mind when I get in that position. Or that epidurals are the best. I do realize that plans change, but why can't people be supportive and encouraging?

Does anyone have any advice on products that really help get through the first few weeks with baby? It can be for baby or me. I only have a week left and i wanna make sure i have everything.

Do any of you have tattoos? Here's mine big momma turtle and baby. Well they say that getting a tattoo is more painful then giving birth. I've experienced both and neither scares me. Just saying..

Delivery room

Who all are you having in the room with you while giving birth?

Am I wrong for telling my Bd that because we not Married my baby don't have to have his last name? He really got mad and told me I was project n ignorant. Crazy part is I was thinking about giving my baby his middle and last name