not a real wedding. stupid and pointless rant?

My husband and I got married almost 9 years ago. Since at the time we had no money, we were young college students and we couldn't afford anything, we chose to get married at a courthouse with just 2 witnesses (no dress, no engagement ring...)

@itsamemario, you deleted your post before I could hit send but this is my comment: I don’t know if this answers your question but this is my answer.

My son is 7 and he knows race and color. Why? Because he himself comes from a family that is multi racial and because he has already experienced racism. I also believe as his mother it’s my job to teach him color and the cold hard truth about society. He knows what’s going on in this world. I’d be hurting him if I allowed him to blindly walk out...

You know what my wish would be? I have made such amazing friends on here, you ladies are as close to me as my own family. My wish would be to plan a meet up in about 1 years time we can all meet somewhere in the world with our little ones. Because we ALL will be blessed with our babies by then PMA! I would just love to meet you guys in person, your amazing. HUGS to all and mega baby dust to those trying

Adult children living at home

My husband and I argue about this all the time. He says he will never put our children out and they will always have a place to live here at home. I completely disagree. My children can live at home through college if they choose to go and a short while after while they find a job and get on their feet. However, if they choose to not go to school or not have a job, there is no way they will live at home for free. I just feel like when you're an adult, it's time to ...

Am I wrong for telling my Bd that because we not Married my baby don't have to have his last name? He really got mad and told me I was project n ignorant. Crazy part is I was thinking about giving my baby his middle and last name