Birth Plan Rant

I used to be all about getting an epidural, but after research and thinking about it more I want to have an unmedicated birth (this is my first baby). What annoys me is when I say that I'm going to TRY my hardest to have a natural and unmedicated birth people always feel the need to say that I'm crazy or that I'm going to change my mind when I get in that position. Or that epidurals are the best. I do realize that plans change, but why can't people be supportive and encouraging?

I been off my birth control pills since April this year

As calm as I try to be I am TERRIFIED of giving birth!!!

How come theres no group for birth/labour experiences? As a first time mom, I want to know your stories!

I want to have a natural birth, at home. Preferably in a birth pool.

Tell me about yours!

All mommas on birth control! what birth control are you using , I don't know what to choose after the baby is born. I've never really been on birth control. I definitely don't want anything that can cause complications, weight gain and mood swings! thanks in advance!!