I would keep him away from his kids just because your unhappy. It seem like he love his children. But I don't know the situation only you do. So do what u need to..

Love is patient, love is kind, love can conquer all things, but love is also a choice. If you love him and things are more good than bad, not violent, but time is needed to "fix" things I don't understand why you would leave. At the end of the day my opinion doesn't matter as it is your choice. But, even the very best of relationships have hard days, even unhappy days, but the ones that last are the ones where both people set themselves aside sometimes to do what is best for their whole family. I have had days on my relationship where I want to pack and go, but we both know(dh and I) that I'm not going anywhere. Not because I can't, but bc I have made a commitment and know logically that I have something amazing. Sometimes our emotions get the best of us and we make rash decisions that we wouldn't make when logically sound. Take a real look at your self and your life and your child and this man who you claim to love. If what ever is going on were reversed would you encourage him to leave? Or would you tell him that he should work with you and work it all out? Every relationship, like any successful business, takes work and a plan. Once a plan is mapped out you can both execute the plan. It takes time, effort, and willingness to revisit the drawing board as needed to stay on track. The best of wishes to you in whatever you decide. But I really hope it will all work out. Also, if he is military, have you checked into the Military One Source or FRG for help? Chain of command??? There are so many resources available to you as a military family. Please seek them out before making a final decision!!!

If you want to move then you should. You should just have a fair visitation schedule for him.

My oldest has a different father and when I was living out of state his father would have him for the summers and we would split the school vacations.

If you aren't happy in the situation and you don't see it changing you should move. He'll find ways to see her if he wants to.

Coming from someone who has been in this situation. Do what it best for you and your children. If he wants to see her he'll find a way whether you're down the street or across state lines....you know how my situation panned out and I do not regret it one bit. Waiting to see if he'll change (odds are he won't) will only make things worse for you but more importantly also your daughter. She can't miss something that wasn't ever there. Message me if you need to.

Is he usually around more when he’s not in training? I do think you are moving a little quick. I understand your feelings but moving your daughter away is maybe what she doesn’t want and not in her best interest.

I wouldn’t keep her from him in another state if he is always there for her and doesn’t jst take care of her wen it’s convenient