I feel like such a bad mom. My kids don't listen when they are around each other and the rough house…

I feel like such a bad mom. My kids don't listen when they are around each other and the rough house constantly. Savannah is always screaming and Mateo my 11 year old is always doing something to annoy her on purpose and won't stop either till I'm flipping out. Sometimes I feel like my daughter hates me because she's always asking for her dad especially when I tell at her or she's in time out