I struggle being an at home mom... I loved being a mom when I only had one. Now that i have 2 get…
I struggle being an at home mom... I loved being a mom when I only had one. Now that i have 2 get way over welmed and dont stop to look at all the blessings that I have. I get caught up in the "No dont do that" "stop touching that" that i dont enjoy that cuddles on the couch or the random kisses to try and make things better. This week... this week im going to try and slow down and enjoy the little things. Feel free to message me and see how im doing!
XryztalRoze·
Take a deep breath and pick one day to start with that is mommy and babies day. No unnecessary chores during a certain block of time. Then give each baby 15 minutes daily of alone time with you. That may not seem like enough but trust me that time will be very appreciated and can grow as they do. It's also a realistic amount of time that is doable under even the busiest of schedules. One can get up a little earlier than the other and then the other can go down for nap or bed time a little later to make it work or when dad gets home he can take one for one on one time with him and you can alternate children on each day. Hope this helps give you ideas.
Ashton··
Thank you. I'll definitely try it.
XryztalRoze··
You're welcome! Having two is actually easier for me in some ways because they can entertain and okay with one another. Once you find your groove and methods that work for you, you'll have more ease at things. Some times it's easier, sometimes it's harder but take a deep breath and be kind to yourself. It's ok to just take time to sit with them!!!
Ashton··
I think it will be easier when they get just a little bit older and my youngest can play a little bit better