Fiona came in our room crying and I picked her up held her asked her what was wrong and she babbled…
Fiona came in our room crying and I picked her up held her asked her what was wrong and she babbled something we couldn’t understand her so I just asked “well what will make you feel better? You want a hug? Maybe a-“ then she cuts me off and says so seriously, “UM DONUTS.” Lol okay little girl I’ve been there lol. So I mean of course I have her some but now she has powder everywhere and when I asked her if they were all gone she said “nope they are on Feena!” (That’s what she calls herself) and happily licks her fingers. We love this girl lol
P.s don’t at me for my messy room I’m in depressions 😅
The EK 💋·
Doughnuts make everything better 😉
CAS··
Always lol
What's It To You?·
Powdered donuts are life, especially the minis 😍
CAS··
Yep we get those mini packs in bulk lol
sherry S·
Who doesn’t love a donut 🍩& did you know room/ house clutter makes the energy of your home tense,even if u have a laundry basket better to stick it in there then see the pile on floor ,I love to clean actually helps me de stress ,wishing you better days
CAS··
I totally agree but my anxiety/depression is paralyzing and unfortunately I just have to wait for my next manic episode to clean the house and hope it last long enough lol
sherry S··
even if you start small definitely your bedroom should be a cozy safe haven for you ,nothing better than finding time for you take a long shower , comfy clothes on and freshly washed & dried bed sheets to lay on ,you deserve it , maybe your man can also help organize the house better so you can rest ,”we have to have positive self talk “ I always wake up and say I’m grateful for my healthy children,a stable career ,a roof over our head ,stability is very important as well ,maybe you should talk with your spouse when your not having a good day or even a therapist can give you better ways to deal with difficulties in thoughts
Linden··
this is exactly my process. I'll have a manic few days and it'll be, and stay, spotless for weeks. Then I'll get funky again and the cycle continues. I 100% understand where you're comin from girl!
Linden·
Depression room/house is the worst! It gets so daunting, where ya don't even know where to start so you just say fuck it, stay in bed and MAYBE try tomorrow. I feel ya girl. Your daughter is absolutely adorable though!
CAS··
Thanks lol yeah it’s hard for sure plus I feel like when I clean up the kids just run through it again and it’s a mess. I usually make myself do one thing a day but I’m usually emotionally exhausted to continue. But the kids are happy and fed and have clean clothes and we keep up with the common spaces and their room so I try not to be too hard on myself. It’s mostly my room and the kitchen that stay chaotic
Linden··
my problems EXACTLY! The kitchen is the room I hate cleanin the most so it's easily put off! 🤣
Linden··
As long as everyone's happy and healthy, you do YOU girl! 😘
Linden·
This is the pile next to my bed! My last manic episode I went through a decorating phase. I was organizing, cleanin stuff out, gettin rid of shit then...it just dropped off. I have a pile of picture frames and stuff I was gonna hang up in the house and crap.... "they'll be there when I get manic again" was LITERALLY the exact sentence I said to myself! I get it.
CAS··
That makes me feel better thank you ☺️
Linden··
you are 100% not alone Mama! As long as everyone is alive and makes it to the next day, you're doin alright!