My sons dad out of nowhere messaged me and asked what kind of flowers I think. Said I didn't know…

My sons dad out of nowhere messaged me and asked what kind of flowers I think. Said I didn't know and asked why. I have a hard time thinking that there isn't some motive behind it. My mind goes straight to, omgsh is he planning on taking me to court or is he wanting to see Mateo (hes around visiting his mom. He doesnt live here) it's always something but then again he cant use nothing like that in court. Obviously because its about Mateo. I don't know why my mind works like that. I usually never think someone has motives behind every single thing.