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thatregalmujer
Livinintheeastdreaminboutthewest·Мама сына (7 лет)

Agree or Disagree?

Same sex couples in stable and loving relationships should be excluded from being able to possibly adopt children.

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Disagree! Some of the cutest and most loving couples I have seen are same sex couples that are amazing and I've seen some man/woman relationships that are horrible and toxic. It goes both ways though.

Personal love preference shouldn't make a difference, being a good human being, stable and loving should be the only thing that matters.

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heatherlou88
Heather·Мама троих детей

@squishymommy1 so when your son was adopted did something go wrong or were u forced to do it? Just curious since you're against it.

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squishymommy1
squishymommy1·Многодетная мама (6 детей)

I was a naive 16 year old and my parents had already kicked me out of the house so I was homeless and couch surfing at friends houses. No one offered to help me or help me find resources to keep my baby. No one helped me see that I could parent him. Only that adoption was going to offer him a better life. Which was utter bullshit because they did an absolutely terrible job and he’s a giant mess. I was sent away to live with a shepherding family.

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heatherlou88
Heather·Мама троих детей

@squishymommy1 I see, I'm sorry that happened to you!

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themothafuckinladymarlow
Linden·Мама сына (10 лет)

If they're stable and can provide a loving home, I dont care WHO wants to adopt a child!

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thatregalmujer
Livinintheeastdreaminboutthewest·Мама сына (7 лет)

@leonardsquared I don't care either, too many children are being abused, hurt, killed, if we can get someone to raise children with good ethics, good morals, good values... full speed ahead on that boat

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kush_queen420
Your Worst Nightmare 😘·Мама троих детей

I mean I think it could cause confusion in the long run but at first a kid might not realize it but when it hits them they might be like like what!? Is this normal ? Are others parents like this etc ... because the first thing they see is the fact it’s two moms or etc idk 😐

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thatregalmujer
Livinintheeastdreaminboutthewest·Мама сына (7 лет)

@kush_queen420 or they might become regular people who don't care about the opinions of others... you just can't tell, lol

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kush_queen420
Your Worst Nightmare 😘·Мама троих детей

@thatregalmujer, haha hopefully

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imacat
Meow. ·Мама двоих (3 года, 8 лет)

Why would that be considered abnormal though? It is normal, she/he have two moms or dads that love and cherish them.

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scream.queen
scream.queen·Мама подростков

100% disagree.

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harleyquinn13
Harley Quinn ·Мама двоих (7 лет, 9 лет)

Completely disagree.

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raisingblueyedbabiesx2
Dusty ·Мама четверых детей

Same sex couples should have the same rights as anyone other 2 sex couples just bcuz there gay shouldn't make a difference

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briannalynn547
Brianna Montgomery ·Мама двоих (5 лет, 7 лет)

Disagree !

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fairykarmamomma
FairyKarmaMomma·Мама сына (11 лет)

As a person who grew up in the SF Bay and had several friends who came from a same sex couple home and am used to seeing that dynamic actually work, I don’t think there’s anything wrong with same sex parenting, regardless of how they became parents. What matters is they’re being cared for appropriately.

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harleyquinn13
Harley Quinn ·Мама двоих (7 лет, 9 лет)

@thatregalmujer, I agree to disagree! I don’t think a man can take the full role of a mother, but can take certain attributes and vice versa for a woman to take a man’s role. As for actual genitalia, I agree lol. And yes! Teaching children can come from both parties, thats more so what I meant.

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thatregalmujer
Livinintheeastdreaminboutthewest·Мама сына (7 лет)

@littleonemorning 🤣🤣 did I read your original comment wrong? Smh, yes, I agree, anyone can take on the "role" of "mom" or "dad" without being the gender associated with it, lol. I don't believe moms have certain responsibilities to their children and dads have certain responsibilities. I'm sorry, completley read your comment wrong

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harleyquinn13
Harley Quinn ·Мама двоих (7 лет, 9 лет)

@thatregalmujer, oh no worries 🤣 I’m glad you understood what I meant though!

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imacat
Meow. ·Мама двоих (3 года, 8 лет)

Disagree big time!

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delete____

Disagree! Some of the cutest and most loving couples I have seen are same sex couples that are amazing and I've seen some man/woman relationships that are horrible and toxic. It goes both ways though.

Personal love preference shouldn't make a difference, being a good human being, stable and loving should be the only thing that matters.

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somebodysmama2
Maya 🐝·Мама двоих (6 лет, 9 лет)

Disagree. There are so many children that need good homes! Same sex shouldn’t matter.

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thatregalmujer
Livinintheeastdreaminboutthewest·Мама сына (7 лет)

Good homes don't always look like heterosexual couples, or even biological parents.

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jenx
JenX·Мама подростка

Disagree. I think we need to look at the root of this argument, that gay people are somehow depraved and sex addicts and all those old stereotypes. Being gay doesn't mean being a pedophile. Most gay people are as boring as the rest of us and could provide a wonderful loving home. They probably cherish those kids more because they have to jump through so many hoops and be scrutinized so much more.

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thatregalmujer
Livinintheeastdreaminboutthewest·Мама сына (7 лет)

@jenx I'm not sure how many people view gays as such, I mean I know they are out there, and I also don't know the statics on this, but I'm sure there are more straight people pedophiles than gay, percentage wise. I do believe that children must be raised by people who love them and do the best by them

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lucky18
N👼🏾💙A💕👧🏾A💕👧🏾·Мама троих детей

Disagree. So many kids out there need a stable home and love.

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lizibear84
Elizabeth Hebert·Мама двоих (6 лет, 9 лет)

Married, same sex, single, none of that should matter as long as they can provide a stable, loving home. There are so many kids out there that don’t have the homes they deserve. Let everyone who can give it, give it.

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squishymommy1
squishymommy1·Многодетная мама (6 детей)

I’m against adoption 100%. Legal guardianship only and no DIA.

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squishymommy1
squishymommy1·Многодетная мама (6 детей)

@thatregalmujer, there’s some great YouTuber adoptees raising awareness out there.

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thatregalmujer
Livinintheeastdreaminboutthewest·Мама сына (7 лет)

@squishymommy1 cool. Let me know who are some good ones to subscribe to, or just tell me one, YouTube will recommend others

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squishymommy1
squishymommy1·Многодетная мама (6 детей)

@thatregalmujer, Kirsta Louise was great, but I just looked and I can’t find her now. Which is a bummer. She was really great and I wonder why she’s not there anymore 🤔

Here’s a great Ted talk from a transracial adoptee

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ss3mom
Ss3mom·Мама двоих (11 лет, 13 лет)

100000% disagree. They should be allowed to adopt children. I know a man who I used to work with him and his husband adopted 2 siblings. They are giving these kids an amazing life. My friend was a fellow vet tech and his dh is a pediatrician. So I mean they make some great parents! They should be allowed to raise children

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