Guys :( my husband totally just put me down hard-core. :(
He said he likes his women the way he likes his "" cant remember what he was comparing me to. But then he said thick, round, and fluffy.
I know im over weight. And I've been doing everything to loose weight and now im so bummed he said that. Since my baby was born I've lost 40 lbs. Obviously 20 lbs is just water weight and all that. But I've been dieting so hard and working out regularly. I went from 227 at 40 weeks pregnant to 179....Now 2 months post partum.
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@kaycharwy312, Never let a man tell you about “you” your beautiful and 3 very young children your doing amazing , I get hit on by plenty of men and my sizes changed a lot thru the yrs “do what makes you happy
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So tell him when he looks like a model come let you know 😂
I agree, it sounds like he meant well but it didn’t come out quite right
I agree with most of these women. He’s clueless with words, but I think he meant he loves you pretty mama 👏🏽👏🏽 and good job with the boys 💪🏽
He just knows how hard I am on myself, so it felt like he was being mean. But I'm super sensitive about it so it very well could have been being nice and saying he loved me and I took it the wrong way !
Seem like a compliment too me lol maybe you just took it the wrong way
It also took you 9 months to gain the pregnancy weight, don't be so damn hard on yourself, thinkin it needs to be gone, plus some, 3 months later!
No, you are 100% right, I need to just love my body for what it is
@kaycharwy312, Never let a man tell you about “you” your beautiful and 3 very young children your doing amazing , I get hit on by plenty of men and my sizes changed a lot thru the yrs “do what makes you happy
Ooooh GIRL😡🤬! He's just an IDIOT ass boy. Do NOT let him get to you. In his own dumbass, man way...maybe he thought he was sayin somethin good?? I know, i KNOW, but stay with me here...maybe he thought he was saying somethin like he loves you how you are, like he's not as stressed about this diet as you are. MAYBE? Do I make any sense?? Haha! I'm just tryin to think of all possibilities. Thoughts??
Right, no i get what ur saying. Im just worried about it and took it as he was trying to tell me im fat lol as if I didn't already know
@kaycharwy312, I mean...he DEFS could have worded it better but bless his heart, he's a BOY honey. They just don't know any better sometimes! 🤣
Men are so clueless sometimes. Sounds like something my husband would say. He meant it as a compliment but really upsets us 🤦🏻♀️ girl you’re doing awesome!
@leonardsquared, yes I agree because my husband would say something like that. I think he really meant it as trying to be sweet .I’m petty though I’d probably reverse it and say something about him. 😆
Ya it could have been ! I was just being very sensitive since I'm insecure about it. Thankyou !!!
He was saying he likes thick round women, so isn’t that saying he loves you for you and finds you attractive?🤨
My boyfriend says he loves thick women and didn’t realize he did until he met me. It’s a compliment babe. And give yourself a break, growing children takes 9 months you can’t possibly think you can take all of that change back in 2?
I know im sensitive about the situation, and it just hit my confidence hard :( I need to just stop worrying about it and enjoy the fact I was able to bring my babies into the world ! I just needed a little vent lol
@kaycharwy312, I get it trust me, I struggle with my body image a lot more than I’d like to. I’ve just told myself I don’t want to live a life being sad about the way my body looks. I hope you can tell yourself the same🤞🏽
First off he is a complete ass and that was completely uncalled for. 🙄
Second. Don’t be so hard on yourself you are only 2 months pp it takes time to lose the weight and it seems you’ve already been doing a great job! don’t let him bring you down. Have you told him how it made you feel??
Thankyou, ya i told him that was hurtful and he just laughed:( he knows that in the past I've had eating disorders and how painful it is that I'm the weight that I am. Im just sensitive about my weight :(
@kaycharwy312, you’re welcome. I understand completely, I’ve had my battle my self and struggle till this day with accepting myself as I am now. He probably doesn’t understand and felt he wasn’t being insulting but it’s a good you put out how you felt about it and hopefully he thinks before he speaks next time. There so many other ways to compliment someone.
He was saying he likes thick round women, so isn’t that saying he loves you for you and finds you attractive?🤨
My boyfriend says he loves thick women and didn’t realize he did until he met me. It’s a compliment babe. And give yourself a break, growing children takes 9 months you can’t possibly think you can take all of that change back in 2?