It makes me sad when the girls want to nap but I can't cuddle both of them. Most of the time I…
It makes me sad when the girls want to nap but I can't cuddle both of them. Most of the time I cuddle the baby first and my oldest just curls up behind my back and I feel so guilty that I can't hold her too especially if she falls asleep before I get to hold her☹
Livinintheeastdreaminboutthewest·
Мама сына (2 года)
Aaww, this made me so sad :(
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The guilt always makes me cry a little when she does that
Livinintheeastdreaminboutthewest··
Мама сына (2 года)
I would feel bad too. But I'd make it up when she's awake, try to give her a little extra love when she's awake ❤
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always or I lay right next to her and hold her for a while
Sistersmainpiece·
I hold both of mine and sometimes all 3 will cuddle to me. I hold the baby on one side of me and my 2 yr old on the other and my 7 yr old will come find a spot. We make it work. Maybe you can make it work too.
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Sometimes that's hard because she will want to breastfeed until she falls asleep and I ending up breastfeeding both. It's harder laying down because she would end up laying on me and I turn to the side so the baby can have the other breast. She's very heavy so I tell her let me put baby to sleep and I'll hold her next that's when she just curls up behind my back and wait or just falls asleep
Sistersmainpiece··
oh I definitely understand. When there are times I can’t cuddle all I’ll try to hold hands or I’ll periodically reach over and rub on their arm or play in their hair. If you can’t, you can’t and don’t feel bad. She is loved and sometimes it’s just not possible to stretch ourselves.