I really feel like my sons dad likes arguing with me for no reason. We’ve been going back and fourth…

I really feel like my sons dad likes arguing with me for no reason. We’ve been going back and fourth for hours now about my sons ear piercings. We literally just pierced my sons ears and I get a photo showing that they took them out. So when I asked him about it he says “yeah I took them out because the person that did them didn’t do it right” and he adds that his sister is gonna be doing them the right way tomorrow.....is this man crazy?! I told him his sister is not a professional so she better not try experimenting on my son. he says “Ill take him to my homie who is a professional tomorrow” so I said I will come get my son because the holes have to close before he can get them re-pierced. He tells me that legally I cannot come take his son and he’s keeping him because I shouldn’t have taken him to a bootleg shop.

We literally just got our sons ears pierced and HE WENT WITH ME. He didn’t say anything about not liking the piercings when we went and to make matters worse this is the same place he went to get his own piercing a year ago so I don’t understand the problem. He’s so stupid it irritates me. He said he seen something on t.v about a 6 month old getting potty trained so he’s trying it because if Asiah keeps wetting his diapers too much at night this means he’s ready for potty training. WHAT? A 6 month old? I literally just can’t. 🤦🏽‍♀️ I’m fed up.