Need input please. I have been w/ my so for 7 years..we have been married 3 this month. I had to…
Need input please. I have been w/ my so for 7 years..we have been married 3 this month. I had to take almost a year off of work due to pregnancy early in our relationship. But the last 4/5 years he has barely kept a job. I am trying to be positive and wanna make this work but I rarely take a day off and even then I'd feel guilty. Between us we have 6 kids. I find it disrespectful to quit a job and leave me working and providing for everyone. His reasons are petty and hes got this I'm too good for that job attitude🙄 idk what to do anymore. I know he loves me but I have always said aww I wish I could stay at home with the kids..then he says you can..yeah ok buddy how tf we gonna provide for these kids when your always quitting or something???!!..
Where’s Waldo·
Yeah that’s definitely not fair and he’s being hella selfish. I’d lay it out for him. If he can’t keep a job, like actually try, id be figuring out what I wanted in my life and going for it.
The EK 💋·
Time to sit him down and give him a come to Jesus moment. This is absolutely not acceptable behavior by a grown man — especially one with a family. I would never ever quit a job without having another one lined up. How irresponsible and selfish. Truthfully, I don’t think I could be with someone like that. Either he changes or he’s got to go. It is so disrespectful to you that he quits these jobs and leaves the full financial responsibility of the family on your shoulders again and again.
Livinintheeastdreaminboutthewest·
Мама сына (2 года)
Yeah, I've always believed, you don't have to love your job, you just gotta get a paycheck, lol. Also, never quit a job unless you have another one lined up, or a fallback plan. He's behaving as though you're his fallback plan. How's he with the children at home? He seems to believe that you can be the sole provider to the household, has it ever come up that he can stay at home with the children while you work? If not, why's he so comfortable quitting jobs and leaving you to bear the financial responsibility?
Candice··
No we haven't discussed him staying at home. He says he hates staying at home. He normally doesn't clean or cook. He says because he works on our cars🙄He wants to run his own business. But that's kinda hard when your credit ain't crap or your not saving $$$. We could save money if he kept a job. No matter what job I have whether I like it or not I never quit because well we have Bill's and kids. Idk I'm just so torn. The kids never go ask him for help or stuff first because he automatically says no or dont get up.
Candice·
Thanks ladies. I'm just fed up. I've been so patient over the years because I'm not a quitter lol I hate giving up on someone but I wanted a partner not another person to support. I'd just like prayers. Idk what I'll do next.