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Rant. I’m so annoyed because I’ve been looking for a place where my family and I can move to but no luck. We currently…

Rant.

I’m so annoyed because I’ve been looking for a place where my family and I can move to but no luck. We currently rent a house with my mom my siblings and stepdad but things are not being paid equal. My brother that just graduated came to live with us and he ain’t paying anything . No rent no bills nothing. The excuse is because he still has to pay rent at his apt he had back in college and that ends in “august”. He does have a job now and he orders stuff all the time . Also my mom and I are the only ones that clean. My sister also lives with us and doesn’t do anything. It’s so frustrating because she also has a cat the sheds like crazy and hair gets everywhere and she does not vacuum 🙄 I had it I can’t take it anymore.... 😓

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday…

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?

Who else has financial issues within their relationship?? Or am I just lucky 🙄🙄

Who else has financial issues within their relationship?? Or am I just lucky 🙄🙄 Not sure if I'm being just mean or what. But my SO used $160 from me this morning. I gave him my bank card because he needed $60 to get material for work. His boss was going to give it back to him at the end of the day. So instead of $60 he took out $160. Which I was a little pissed. (One of the reasons I just can't let him use my card. I have to go get the money from the atm myself if I'm giving it to him) then, tonight he asked for $20 incase his boss didn't give it to him. So I gave him my card not even thinking because I had kids running around me. I asked if he could pick up a few things that were out of and told him he could use my card if he has too. And I even told him not to get the expensive brands or anything m generic is fine. So he does. But when he does he decides to go Easter shopping for the kids. (Not sure if he used to my card or not) but if he did, I'd be even more pissed. He knows I have bills to pay on top of giving my son's school money that I owe them. He goes to a private school and I haven't paid in 5 months. It's towards the end of school now so I need to pay it. He knows this month I am extremely tight because of the school, im already in debt and my credit score sucks. I have been trying not to get in more debt and actually fix my credit. I'm so frustrated. It's like we have different priorities and different ideas on this. I feel like I'm completely drowning!!

I told my friend my mom wants to throw me a baby shower and write on the invite "monetary gifts only" and he told me…

I told my friend my mom wants to throw me a baby shower and write on the invite "monetary gifts only" and he told me that people aren't trying to pay for my "gas bill" I'm offended because a lot of money goes into a baby shower, and if you're gonna give me a 10$ blanket from Ross that I probably won't even use it's a waste. I rather use those 10$ for my honest company diaper subscription.

What do you think is fair?

What do you think is fair? DF and I pay $885.00 a month for a 2 bedroom 825sqft apartment. We pay for electric, water, cable and Internet separately. My parents are getting a divorce and my dad has 2 dogs that he can't take care of because of the hours he works. DF and I were talking about moving in with my dad to help him take care of the house and dogs because now that he has to pay spousal support to my mom money will be tight for him. We will be paying to live there. My dad told us to come up with what we think is fair for rent (we are a family of 4, 2 adults 2 children) I'm not sure what sounds fair. All utilities are included and comes with cable and Internet. We will also be helping with groceries. What do you think is a fair amount ?