Question for moms with boys.... If you knew your son was cheating on his girlfriend and had another girl over your house would you tell your sons girlfriend or mind your business?
I'd tell my son's GF right in front of him
No SIR momma ain't going to codone any cheating
I would talk to him first about it and being respectful and tell him he can’t bring his side piece to the house. And if he continues to cheat on her, I’d slip her a hint or two
How old is my son? He wouldn't be allowed to have a second girl over, but that's not the question 😂 I'd mention it to her in front of him... still can't imagine giving my son the ok to have a gf though, feels so weird, lol, I guess he's gonna be grown one day and I'll just have to watch him live his life 😥
I don't even have boys and I know how I feel about it. I've been the girl cheated on and the mother knew about it.
Shit hurts
Plus if I have a boy how will he feel if his sisters were the one being cheated on
ok, nope, he can't bring the other girl to my house, and since he's a whole adult... I'd talk to him about his behavior and his intentions. If I liked the gf, I'd tell her, cuz that's the type of person I am, just always inserting myself when it's none of my business 😂😂
Can I just say that I applaud all you women👏👏👏👏...I don't have a son but my ex mil knew her son was cheating and looked the other way...I lost all respect for that woman on that day.
Yeah -id deff tell her . Idgaf who it is , he should learn to not be shady asf that’s messedup i hope she’ll take it well .
I agree love your perspective on things! You’re a great mom and raising well respected gentleman. Props to you!! 💙
thank s for your kind words my 2 older son’s have turned into young respectable men ,
Sooo I feel like I should add to my comment since you specified like an young adult.
I know there are different relationship styles (considering I partake in one) so I would probably ask my son about it and make sure everyone is consenting. I would still ask both the girls though because without consent from all of them it's cheating.
@ajaecymone184 even if you told the girl in this circumstance the girl should still know...she shouldn't be surprised there's someone else involved to the point that the mother knows before her
Yeah girl I hate saying it but I don't think I would just take my kids words on it so I personally would confirm. Especially if you're doing it in MY house.
Well my boys still young but my brother did something like this for sure ,talk to your boy see 1 were he learned it from 2 why he is doing what he is doing 3 tell him it is not fair to mess with peoples emotions like that and always be honest
Side note when brother did some shyt like this i was the first to let the girls knkw n i got cuss out for saving them girls hearts 💕 and one was a cutter my brother would not know how ro handled that
@massgirl @ajaecymone184 when it's all said and done, it's not the mom's responsibility to insert herself into her son's life and the lives of his significant others. I can understand a mom not saying anything to the SO, especially if she's not buddy buddy with the young lady. Now I'd say something, cuz I'm extra. A lot of times too, you tell the girl what's going on and she ends up hating you for telling her, and stays with the guy. I guess you'd have to handle each on a case by case basis. If it's not happening in my house, I don't think I'd care that much, I'd probably lose some respect for my son though.
Yeah see and I have friends who feel the same way as you do about not inserting themselves in their kids affairs because they feel it can alter the relationship they have with their child. Completely understandable I definitely see things from your point of view I guess it just depends. I wouldn’t allow this kind of behavior from my son but I hope I’m never even in the position because I feel I’d be conflicted but would obviously want to do what’s right.
@massgirl lol, that's a pic of one of my fave artists. Lady G, I'm not lady g, lol
not alter the relationship with my child, I would not put up with that behavior. I'm more concerned with how the SO would feel/react. Some people blame you for their relationship failing when you tell them that their partner isn't faithful. They also choose to stay sometimes and accuse you of trying to destroy their relationship. So it really depends on the SO, if they want to know, I'll tell them... because I'm extra, I'll tell them regardless, lol.
I'll let my child know all day he's wrong. I won't provide a place for him to cheat, and he can't bring new women around, I won't put up with that slack behavior
I would tell her, because it wouldnt be my place, however I would make sure my son knew the other girl wouldnt be welcome in my home, as it is not my business and I wont be a part of that type of disrespect.
Well I will talk to my son... Make sure he understands what he is doing is wrong. And if it happens again then I will tell both girls. Because that isn't want we are raising
Hell ya I would and they wouldn’t be in my home to begin with 💯💯
I would talk to my son first and let him know thats its not right what hes doing and make him tell his girl and break up with her cause if he cheat he doesnt love her and she definitely doesnt deserve this !!!! But i wouldn't tell her he would id make sure of it!!!
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I'd tell my son's GF right in front of him
No SIR momma ain't going to codone any cheating
Ms Jackson If Ya Nasty ·
I would talk to him first about it and being respectful and tell him he can’t bring his side piece to the house. And if he continues to cheat on her, I’d slip her a hint or two
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Same!