Everytime I put the baby down, I quietly leave the room and shut the door but as soon as my toddler sees me he's always like "AH! MOOOOMMYYYYY!" But I also blast the white noise so she doesn't wake up.
Right! I used to baby sit and my daugher would ass up everytime he slept so I started a quiet time while baby was sleeping we have quiet time she could read or watch TV have some time to herself snack but had to do it quietly so baby could sleep and that seemed to work