Daughter has been driving me crazy 😭 Ever since my parents moved in with us she would go to them…

Daughter has been driving me crazy 😭 Ever since my parents moved in with us she would go to them when ever we discipline her. Spoke with them and they let her know they’re not the parents to be obedient. But lately I feel like something is wrong with her. She has been lacking her zoom classes and I try to speak with her to let her know she needs to participate but some days she seriously drives me insane 😩She takes speech therapy but can she have something else that’s not capturing what we tell her 👀🤔