Omg I feel like crying right now. Is it normal to constantly get on your kids more than 3 times for something that's getting them into trouble like not listening when you tell them to stop over and over again. Then you spank them but cry or anything happens and your just trying to figure out whats going on why they don't listen when you bust there bottoms for something that did was wrong but yet they do it again.
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Time out (I will shut my son in a room and hold the door for 2-3 minutes and he hates it... even the threat of it now makes him stop in an instant) / taking toys away really works and has worked since my son was 2. I can’t speak for a 7 year old because I don’t have a child that age so I know my punishments will have to adapt. I do know i will never hit the kids, I think it shows a loss of control and I wouldn’t ever want to be violent towards my children. I believe we’re here to lead by example and if I hit when I’m angry / frustrated at them they will do the same.
I have 2 year old twins and I’m constantly getting after them, I count to 3 and if they don’t listen it’s time out time or they get their toy taken away but it’s a work in progress nothing happens over night
I've tried timeouts with my 7 year old that didn't work but i haven't yet done that with my 2 year old.
They are still learning. You are going to repeat yourself girl. I still do with all my kids and my husband! Try redirecting or time outs
No I don't I pop her on the hand sorry. Right I have been but no I don't spank my 2 year old only the hand but I don't do it to hard I do it where it catches her.
I mean I have to repeat myself constantly and my five year old is certainly pushing boundaries and not listening. You're probably crying out of guilt because at the end of the day what did spanking really teach them??
Man nothing I mean with my 7 year old there was no tears but with my 2 year old yea there was crys with tears so I'm just trying to make it where it won't happen with the 2 year old that the 7 year old is doing which is hard and irritating
@amelliaholmes1457 spanking a two year old seriously???? Developmentally she's in a phase where she's still learning right from wrong. Not listening and pushing boundaries is age appropriate behavior in order for her to learn that her actions have consequences. Have you been on a stay at home order. Children are running out of patience under these conditions just like adults are.
Yea its just hard with a 7 and a 2 year old especially when the 2 year old copies her sister on certain things. I'm constantly getting in to her about her bad habits abd not listebing and not doing what she's told and along the 2 year old doing the same thing is very frustrating. Oh i went so far where I scared both of them.