Mom.life
the worst thing about the shelter is older little boys bullying my daughter. like yes shes tall and talks well but they push her and pull on her like whyyyy 😭 and then the parents are aware that their sons are physically bullying a much younger toddler girl and they act like it's not serious. I know kids are kids but a little boy about 4yo chased my daughter and pushed her from behind then I guess it wasnt hard enough so he did it again so hard that she flew forward and fell flat. when his mom told him to say sorry he just kept staring and shaking his head no. like I bet he'll do it again and my poor baby doesnt understand about kids hurting yet. and as a mommy I wish she didnt have to learn about it 😔😔😔😔 if my kid was a bully especially to smaller children I'd take that serious because you never know when it will come back to bite them in the butt. I dont want to be a helicopter mom but at the same time I dont want her to get hurt. shes not used to this and still thinks all kids are nice like her. she'll be cautious at first around these boys because of how they treat her. then she'll warm up and boom they start bullying her again and she doesn't understand.
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kush_queen420
kush_queen420
I would get in that kids ass parent or not if they don’t I will idgaf who likes it I’d tell them stay the fuk away from my kid period this wouldn’t happen twice 💯💯
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dankerson
dankerson
good idea
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jenx
jenx
I would helicopter like crazy in that situation. I don't consider it being a helicopter mom when you know some of the kids aren't nice and are.bullying. helicopter to me.is when they are in a safe children's area and you won't leave them alone to play.
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ss3mom
ss3mom
I agree!! I don’t believe you’re being a helicopter mom when trying to protect your child from physical harm. Just keep reminding your child that it’s ok for her to stick up for herself in situations like this. I think that’s an important lesson to teach even at her young ago. I know it sucks but it’s just what u need to do right now. Also if the bullies parents don’t say something to their child I have no problem stepping in and correcting that bad behavior, within reason obviously.
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dankerson
dankerson
@ss3mom she is much smaller than them and I dont want them trying to hurt her even more if she sticks up for herself 😭 and the parents say something but the dont actually discipline them. like one parent just says the kids name and "dont do that" (this kids will does it all day long everyday and to other kids too) the boys mom that pushed her told him to say sorry he just stood there and shook his head no which confused my daughter, she thought she was sposed to say sorry and she kept apologizing. the fact that hes much older I feel like his mom should put in end to that. but at this point I'm going to have to teach her to say "leave me alone" and keep her close to me at all times
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jenx
jenx
@dankerson I would just protect her. Talk to her about maybe why the children behave that way so she doesn't take it personally, but I would keep her away from bullies in your situation.
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thepfeiffwife
thepfeiffwifeстикер
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dankerson
dankerson
she kept telling me "sorry mommy" after. I had to tell her she didnt do anything wrong 😭
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